To Seinfieldâs George Costanza, worlds colliding was something to avoid at all costs.
Just donât try telling that to Kim Mui.
After all, Mui has never felt simultaneously more at home and more out of place than she did during Mondayâs womenâs basketball game between Muhlenberg and Wilkes.
Caught between her old team and the new, the former Mule guard and first-year Colonels graduate assistant found herself in unfamiliar territory in a place she called home for four years. This, however, hardly felt like a rock and a hard place.
Instead of their usual routine, Mui and third-year Wilkes head coach Chris Heery â an assistant for six years with the Mules â spent much of the time leading up to the game catching up with old friends and reminiscing on the trio of Centennial Conference championships they helped bring to the program.
Instead of their former digs, they took up residence in the visitorâs locker room, and then on the visitorâs bench.

Mui was honored as the Mules’ “Unsung Hero” in December 2011.
âWhen I got there, I gravitated towards the Muhlenberg bench just because I am so used to it,â Mui said. âI almost wanted to go into their locker room and do the cheer with them.â
Instead of the usual handshakes, Mui exchanged warm hugs with Muhlenbergâs players when the starting lineups were announced.
âI was sitting next to Abby [Stenger] waiting for them to call our names, and she said, âdo we hug her? Are we supposed to give her a high five or a handshake?â and I had no idea,â recalled Muhlenberg senior Leeann Lanza. âColleen [Caldwell] ran out and hugged her, so we were like, âokay, we can give her a hug!â It was so fun.â
âI was told the refs saw that and gave each other looks like âwhat are these girls doing?ââ Mui said with a laugh. âI enjoyed that moment a lot.â
So did Mule head coach Ron Rohn, who remarked at the time: âYou donât see that very often. Nobody ever hugs me.â
To complete the weirdness, with her new squad down one with 16.2 seconds to go, Mui found herself cheering against a good friend, pleading for Mule senior Erin Laney to miss the front end of a critical one-and-one.
âIt was funny because we were looking to foul and Erin gets the ball and I was like, âno, thatâs the worst person to foulâ because sheâs such a great leader,â Mui said of her former teammate. âObviously I want my team to win, so I wanted her to miss, which was so weird. After the game I congratulated her, but during it, it was a lot harder than I thought it would be. I was a nervous wreck.â
The irony wasnât lost on Lanza and company.
âIt was so strange to see her on the other bench,â said Lanza. âWe were thinking, âwhy is she sitting on the other side?â Sheâs been to so many of our games this year, and this was the one time sheâs rooting against us.â
Laneyâs free throws, and a desperation miss at the buzzer by Wilkes, brought Mondayâs reunion to a thrilling end, a 62-59 victory for the Mules that brought back many fond memories for Mui. After all, she was a member of the programâs winningest class – one that produced 93 victories, CC crowns in 2009, 2011 and 2012 and a pair of âSweet Sixteenâ appearances. A visitor in name only, Memorial Hall couldnât have felt more like home to Mui.
âI love that gym,â said Mui, who finished her three-year Mule career (an injury sidelined her for one season) with 113 points and 89 rebounds, âand I loved playing here. As soon as you walk in, youâre like âwow.â Iâm still very close with the upperclassmen, and it was great to see them and their families.â

Muhlenberg women’s basketball 2011. Chris Heery is in the back row, second from left, Ellen Rich is in the middle row, fifth from left, and Kim Mui is on the extreme right of the bottom row.
As it turns out, Mui isnât the only part of âhomeâ that Heery has brought to Wilkes. One of his top players, junior Ellen Rich, was a freshman reserve center on the 2011 CC championship team. And his first graduate assistant â Muiâs predecessor â was Sheila Cook, a former Mule standout from 2008-11. So when Cook left Wilkes to become an assistant at Scranton, Heery knew just who to call. At the time, Mui was about to embark on a week-long journey to Europe with â who else? â the 2013-14 Mules.
âTwo days before I left I got a call from Chris, asking whether I wanted the job,â recalled Mui. âIt was happening so fast, but it was a great opportunity. Chris is a great guy, and I knew from Sheila that it was a great chance for me to get into coaching. Iâm very happy.â

Wilkes women’s basketball 2014. Chris Heery is on the left, Ellen Rich is in the middle, and Kim Mui is still on the extreme right.
Along with Muhlenbergâs extended family in Wilkes-Barre, Mui will be back home again soon: Wilkes, as well as Cookâs Scranton squad, will compete in next yearâs Scotty Wood Tournament. Or, perhaps the Mule Family Reunion would be more apt.
âThere will be a lot of Muhlenberg in the house,â Mui said. âI canât wait.â
And no matter where she goes, thereâs no place like home.
âIt was a weird feeling,â Mui said, âbut it was just awesome to be able to coach in Memorial Hall, against a program that I love so much and has given me so much.
âIt was great to come home.â